Watch in order. There's a difference between wanting something to happen and recognizing the possibility--at times likelihood--of it happening. One reason America has forces all over the planet--something for which people in UK criticize us--is to make it so more countries DON'T have to develop nukes. We keep them under our nuclear umbrella. But this brings criticism on us. So Trump says that since we can't afford it, if they don't pay we'll let them be on their own. This is interpreted as him WANTING them to have nukes. No, it's that they would HAVE TO develop them. So, America is slammed if it does protect them, and America is slammed if it does NOT protect do so, and thus must let them protect themselves.
Bullshit subject line on first one. Actually listen.